OK I think that same thing happened to my last post too, I don't know where it went.
The OW had a work up not that long ago, because I did mention to H that if she has anything I may get it too. That is a huge one for me, one of my girl friends got an STD that will be with her for the rest of her life. She was the one that stressed that I should make him use a condum with me which I went as far as stopping taking my birth control pills to make him use one while the affair was still going on.
I have told my H about the issue with him still having contact with her, but he just blows it off as no big deal just deal with it. This was a big issue that we tried to work out during counceling but never really came to an agreement, because she will be bowling with him next year again. I thing that I just don't get is that the team can't find another woman to bowl. I really think that H thought he would not be able to hold the day shift as long as he has, he thought he would get bumped to second shift before bowling would start.
As for finding mutual friends together, we have them but they all live about an hour to an hour and a half away either north of us or south of us. It is very hard to get together with any of them with out having to make plans and change them several times before we actually get together to go out. When we get back from TN we have a pig roast to go to the following weekend, which I know will be fun.
It's funny that you say I should mention that I should not be in contact with my one male friend. I have told my H in the past if it bothers him that I hang out with him I will stop, but H said it is not a big deal any more.
I would like to thank you for all of the positive things that you have to me.
