Quote: Hey does any body have any suggestions on this??
Kim if it is important to you then look at your day and find out what is consuming your time that isn't really important and find a way to do it differently. Make time for you to relax before he gets home. This is his area of expression toward you and makes him feel more "him". To neglect this is to neglect him and the marriage will start to go south. You can look at things that are urgent and find they really aren't as important as your H. Be brutal with this when you look at things.
Quote: It still bothers me that she feels the need to call him, I guess the way I am thinking if she got through once what is saying that she will not get through again. But H has told me over and over that he loves me.
Please help me understand why she is telling him about the cervical cancer issue, usually that is fixed by cryo or Leep and no big deal. Unless she has warts which he will then have exposed you to. Hmmmm. Maybe their is more to this one. Ask him to have her clarify if they found HPV since she talks with him. If so, get your check up done. As in, not an option. There is no other reason for her to share private info like that with him--that is girlfriend talk.
Quote: It still bothers me that she feels the need to call him, I guess the way I am thinking if she got through once what is saying that she will not get through again. But H has told me over and over that he loves me.
Kim be honest with your husband about the insecurities. He may not like what he hears but it may help him to get the picture. Use some analogy with cars that he could understand and tell him it is how you feel when he keeps letting her have his time.
Quote: I know it is a male friend that H at first did not trust me with but he is more like a brother than anything. We have been friends since high school and there has never been an attraction at all. My other friends have kind of fallen off the face of the earth too, it seems like no one will call me back.
Find some new mutual friends with H. I'd think if you leave old friend with harley maybe H will spend less time talking with other woman. See what u can do with that thot.
I am jealous of your trip to TN, sounds like fun fun and more fun. Hope your car gets here soon. Kim you have done well with all the DBing. If you get stuck on how to keep things moving, go down and read the questions in the KLA2005 section--it will head you in the right direction. Keep posting. have a great summer
