Just for those that are new here is previous thread-my sitch
But Just a quick re-cap H and I have been married 12 years, in January H said that he loved me but was not in love with me anymore, H told me a couple of things to fix which I did. In Feburary he admitted to having a PA and EA with a women he bowls with. I "shared" him for the next month and a half, until the OW got tired of sharing, but she realized that H and I still had something and she did not want to be the cause of a divorce. I started C at the begining of all of this H started begining of March, we started C together end of March and finished mid May.
We have been doing a lot more things together along with our D9. But with summers busy schedual things are starting to slide back some to the way they were when we started to have problems.
So DBing really works, but with the help of some very wonderful people who have give some really good advice over the course of all of this I don't think I would be here.
