I seem to have pulled myself out of my funk, one more time...and am back to trying different things to see how my H reacts.
Last night I sent him a simple text message on his phone...something we never do, don't ask me why...we just don't. A simple text message to him while he was at work that said... "xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx all over your body....YUM!" really, that's all it said, not terribly erotic or risque'...pretty darned tame actually. I received a phone call not 5-minutes after I sent it from a very happy sounding hubby...."interesting" I thought to myself.
Then last night....when he got home I got a great big kiss and a "thank you for sending me that message". Now, I won't lie...I was hoping something would happen, but I do know my H well enough to know, he's just not into ML that late at night, when he's tired and has been sweaty all day...so I wasn't disappointed when he said "I'd let you kiss me all over but I'm all sweaty....but how about tomorrow night?"
It was simply a very intersting exchange....it was very obvious my H really liked my little message and had been thinking about it all evening. Perhaps I'll try another this evening