Quote: I have found that backing off of the "I will not live in a sexless marriage forever" statement has improved her mood very much, and seems to be helping our day-to-day interactions.
I'm still not getting laid, but, damn, I feel good about it.
LOL!
TBH, I don't know. With my W, it seems a lot of her LD is an anxiety / pressure issue. So threatening her that "I can't deal with this indefinately" will prolly send her down the wrong road. She says she hates herself for having a LD, but that she can't help it. I am actually trying my best to get the pressure off while at the same time making her feel how it is important to me, but that I don't mind in which form she gives me intimacy. I would be happy without ML for longer periods if there was a substituter for it, eg intense snuggles, some regular tlc initiated by her, etc.
