GEL, This is one of those turning point events in a marriage. I pray that your H has the foresight to see that if he doesn't step up to the plate fully that his GEL will be putting on her little waitress uniform and and high heel shoes and rattling pots and pans in someone elses kitchen (or her own ). That said, do you have specifics that you want him to work on?
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
). 
