Quote: I'm getting much better at saying EXACTLY what I mean to say...even if it is through tears.
This is a very positive sign, GEL. I told my W last night that I have gone through much of our marriage playing my cards close to the vest, keeping my feelings to myself, not sharing my intimate feelings with her. It's just not fair to her to do this.
So share your thoughts and feelings with your H. If you don't, they don't go away. They just get stored in a big closet labeled, "Resentment," which eventually fills up to the bursting point.
