Hairdoggie....My gut (which I've learned to listen to) says he's just looking at women, not necessarily looking to hookup...just at the pics. I don't think this is naive of me to think either....however, just to cover the bases I made it quite clear to him what the consequences would be if I found out I was wrong....as I mentioned.
I also made it clear to him that I truly don't have a problem with him viewing porn (as I'm not a prude), heck I've looked at it myself...watched movies, and enjoy erotic literature....as long as that's not his exclusive form of sexual activity and I'm not excluded, which I have been up to this point......BUT, if he chooses to do that it needs to be sites that are not directed at "hooking up"....that, I'm not going to tolerate....period! I've also made it clear that if he does need that type of stimulation to get going then I would like for him to work on sharing it with me...instead of hiding it from me....and reminded him, hiding it leads me to believe you are ashamed of it or you are doing something wrong.
Thanks for the input guys! GEL
It's not necessary for me to have him show me his yahoo mail....he knows I know better than what he's told me, once I called him out on the fact that I knew he had to have gone there intentionally he backed down from that story....he knows I'm no fool on that end. And don't forget....I do have a keystroke tracker, which he is unaware of, I can easily find out EXACTLY where he's been.
