Okay, GEL. I think your instincts are good. There are so many easy porn sites to surf out there, why bother with AFF.com to look at grainy pix? A couple of possibilities, 1) your looking for a bimbo nearby to hook up with; 2) you get off on looking at women who are possibly local, and fantasizing about hooking up with them.
If it's #1, he has to stop. And if it's #2, uh, he has to stop. Because it's not that hard to go from #2 to #1. If you're already familiar with surfing AFF, think how easy it will be to go there after a fight with your spouse, and to do something to "get back at them."
I'm not an anti-porn militant, as some people are. If he wants to look at it to "prime the pump," I see no problem there. Oh sure, if it becomes the only way he can get going, or he loses interest in you because you don't have a porn star's body, or won't do some of the weird things porn stars do, then yes, it's a problem. So let him surf porn. Just not AFF.
And if he's so insistent about his "pop-up" story, tell him to put his money where his mouth is and show you his Yahoo mail. Look at the trash, look at the the "sent" folder. You know the drill. look for email from AFF. Find out if he has a log-in name.
It sucks to be you, right now, GEL. I hope you find out that everything is cool and that your life gets better soon.
