Whoah. Tough evening. You did a great job and you are a far better woman than I. My H makes a lot of "jokes" about computer porn and jacking off. He has made it perfectly clear that he considers that normal male behavior (I'm sure it certainly is given that he has only had two lovers and never even lived with a woman until me and he was 36yo at the time - had to deal with horniness somehow). I pretend that this is ok with me and to some extent it is. Ex-H had his magazines and it honestly didn't bother me very much. However, current H works from home and spends long hours on his computer. Current H doesn't provide nearly the level of frequency or desire that ex-H did. You couldn't pay me to live with ex-H but I didn't ever have the feeling that he chose the "girlie mags" over me. So...I get internally b*tchy about the porn and occasionally make remarks that let H know that I don't like it even though in theory I have no "problem" with it.
GEL - do you suspect that your H has done anything more than look at the pix? Do you think he chats with anyone or something of that nature?
