Initially, I felt safe with him because I felt I was in control, but over time, my sexuality changed to wanting to feel more of a " manly" presence in my life.
This sounds a lot like me (I'm the man). I think that's what my wife wants, but I'm just naturally shy and anxious, it's hard to simply "sprout testosterone". Believe me, I'd like nothing more... But anyway, what could your husband do to be more "manly"?
Do what you've always done, you'll get what you always got.
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