IHJ,

Thanks for your kind words. I'm not feeling all that particularly patient at the moment though LOL. But we all have that breaking point to our patience.

When I met my H he was a perfect gentleman. He would do many things that one would expect of a man...kissing, petting etc, we didn't ML until we were into the R for almost 2-months. Much of that was my own doing, I didn't want to rush...and thought he was being a gentleman by not pushing me. The 1st month or so things were really pretty good...he initiated, so did I.....then he was fired (got his job back though) and things started going downhill sexually for awhile...which was easy to excuse due to the stress. When he got his job back....well it only took once and along came our S LOL. So to be quite frank, I've only really known him to be fairly sexual for a short time of our R.....but it's as if he's even forgotten about what it was like in the beginning, until I reminded him.

Of course our C asked him if he viewed me as a "mother" since I gave birth to our S...he said no, and that he does think about sex.....just doesn't act on it, doesn't know why.

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!