Excellent, excellent answer GEL. He is fortunate to have you.
In my case, H isn't even aware that I came across that poem on his computer. The R that it came from was more than 10 years before ours and is one that H looks back on very fondly. It was prudent to leave well enough alone. My question (like yours) was whether H felt more free to be sexual in another R. I don't have the answer but I kinda don't think so. Your H might have sent those pix but then again he might have taken them with the intention of sending them and chickened out in the same way he doesn't let the "cat out of the bag" about his sexuality in your R. KWIM?
