My H says he doesn't remember sending those pictures to anyone, but the nature of the pictures looked like that was the intent...he may not have ever sent them, but I believe he did (was obviously taken with his webcam) and just won't say he did. But that's really neither here nor there, my intent wasn't to get him to confess what he did with them or why he took them (remember those were prior to our R).....but more to call BULL! on his past proclimations that he's just not very sexual....or like he used to say...."I just don't even think about it."
My H does enjoy deep kissing, but doesn't do it often...that is one of the things that does rev his engine that I use when I initiate. Our C even asked him yesterday if he thought if he let out his sexual side if he thought he'd run me off....his response was "I don't know." I hate that answer, but it was an interesting one to that question, because I fully expected him to say "No."
That response led our C to ask if he found certain things stimulating that he thought might turn me off or disgust me too....he said " I don't think so." Hmmmmmmm As our C said...he's got modesty in overkill LOL. When she said that I looked at him and told him....I used to be very modest...he laughed at me and said "You?!" My response was...."yes, me....but I had someone who was patient with me and who didn't judge me which allowed me to get to where I am now.....you're fortunate, you have the same thing." I left it at that.
