She touched briefly on why he won't DO anything, and that has to do with the fact that she feels at least at the subconcious level there is something in him that's resisting me.
So I asked this question of him (which BTW our C thought was an excellent question)...."because of your past experiences in your R's with other women are you afraid or do you think/worry that if you do what it is that I'm asking of you and find yourself liking that and enjoying it...that I'll suddenly turn around and say Nope! That's enough of that! and cut you off sexually like other women have? You know tell you this is what I want of you then suddenly change my mind?"
He said he's not worried about this...but because of his pause before answering, I'm not so sure.
