I absolutely agree with you. I view what I did in the C's office as rattling his cage again and giving him another reality check. I intend to take it easy this weekend too...sit in the pool, and let my freckles play connect-the-dots LOL (that's about the only way this red-head looks tan LOL)...and watching my little boy just splash around to his hearts content!!! Taking it easy this weekend is an absolute must, especially since last weekend I was busy overseeing an Open House for 2,400 people....WHEW!!!!
Interestingly enough...since our C's appointment, my H has told me that we would make up for "lost time" this weekend....we'll see what happens. He's also pulled me over and plopped me down to sit on his lap a few times....affectionately, non-sexual....which is not typical behavior for him....so like I said, we'll see.
I think he became to comfortable with the fact that he was going to counseling so that should be enough for me to stay. Going to counseling is wonderful, don't get me wrong on that, but he has to do the work too...not just talk in the C's office and make little gestures. This past week I'm hoping was a wake-up call for him as I reminded him of what I said before....I wouldn't remain in a sexless marriage indefinitely.
So, he's had some stuff to think about....so we'll see what happens this weekend
