Welcome back from vacation. They always go by too quickly, don’t they? Or do they?
About your sitch, expecting to ML on vacation, especially a vacation w/o kids along is bottom line to my way of thinking. A vacation with your spouse alone is meant to be, in my mind at least, a R builder, and what better way to construct the R than ML? I empathize with you for your experience. I don’t know if I could have kept my cool though until the vacation was over and we made it back to the MC office. But I’m the HDH, not the HDW and I respect what it is that you are striving for in your R, HIM taking the initiative.
In our R, when on vacation, I have had many frustrating experiences such as she comes down with a cold on day 2, she has her period and sex is totally out of the question for the week, etc. And it takes a long time to get over the no sex vacation. Another variation is we actually do ML say maybe 3 times in 2 days and she tells me that I wear her out.
Since vacations do seem to replay in our memory banks more frequently than work weeks gone by, and you presented a strong case at the MC’s office shortly after the vacation of what you found lacking on his part, I can only hope for your sake that as he replays the vacation memories in his mind, he connects your statements at the MC’s office and comes to grip with the events of the vacation and all the missed opportunities that he chose not to ML. These are not comforting thoughts.
Vacations can get expensive. Yet the best parts can come for free if both partners are in the mood or at least willing. Take a look at GeekSpeak’s post about “Sex is Free” for a better understanding of that thought train. Example, when I went on vacation at Disney World with my W to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary without kids, even Space Mountain or Sumit Plumit at Blizzard Beach couldn’t compare to the night she RODE ME in our hotel room.
