Quote: As far as the selfish aspect, it sounds like passive-aggressive behavior due to your " ploy" and I'd drop it for now.
But why did her H see her behavior as a "ploy" rather than an invitation? This line of reasoning makes me depressed. Aren't there any men out there with their cocks firmly attached enough to deal with the demands of female sexual desire? Zorba, where are you??!!
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver