I am sure you are right...the truth lies somewhere in between what I said. We will be going away for 5-days, without our son (starting tomorrow) so I'm going to wait just a bit before I do say something to him. This might be a bit chicken of me, but I guess I want to see what happens (although I'm not holding my breath) when he has absolutely no excuses. When we are away from everything that keeps us so busy, when our son cannot be used as an excuse by him for being tired, when we are doing nothing but playing and relaxing. I guess for me that will also reinforce the need to talk to him (if nothing happens, or if the same sexual encounter happens again)...and selfishly I won't feel so bad about having to do it. I guess what I'm trying to do is simply disarm him from his usual excuses....and it just so happens I have the perfect opportunity coming up to do just that.
I'll know more by next week.
Thanks for the insights though...I do believe you are on to something with him.
