RE: GEL I swear....I'm going to go out and buy the man Kama Sutra for Dummies!
GEL buy a case and sell them here. I think several our spouses not on SSM could use them. Sorry the sex did not meet your needs.
I was freshly bathed, sitting in a red sating robe wearing his favorite perfume..... GEL that is most men's dream. Do you have a twin sister that is not married?
I would say maybe you need to be more blunt about your needs and say you took 30 minuets to get decked out and need 30 minuets of action to be satisfied.
but how do you go about telling someone you love...."Honey, I know you can do better than that." That is being critical GEL. You need to instruct him and say what you hope will happen as in moves, positions, and time required for you to feel satisfied.