Yeah, everyone who knows me has this erroneous belief that I am so "nice". If only they were privvy to the darker thoughts that go on in there. I mean both the darker thoughts like "F you and the horse you rode in on H" and the "darker" sexual thoughts too - like "Yes, H I would love an occasional wham-bam in the bathroom when the house is full of people for a party." I sometimes think that because I am kind of a small person (5'5", 116") I am paired with adjectives like dainty, sweet etc.... GEL - go ahead and let your wild woman out once in awhile. Say "WTF H?" Just the other weekend my H was doing busy work at his computer on Saturday night and I said - "You are doing that tired, mindless busy thing. You need to stop." He SMILED. How about that?