I do admire you for your ability to do that without having to get the sex as well. When my wife and I have a bath together, and scrub and talk, It makes me look forward to the ML part. If that doesn't happen, I feel disappointed. I guess I should change my focus to the now and enjoy the bath part without looking forward to the sex. Does this need to work on ones self never end?
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.