I'm really glad things are headed in a positive direction for you. Though the thought I had is this anecdote kind of underscored that there is a difference between someone who is relatively HD (you) and someone who is lifetime HD (me). I could not be naked in a tub with any man to whom I am at all attracted at any time (unless I just had sex very recently or was quite ill) and not want to have sex. Even if he farted in the water and made stupid buoy jokes about my breasts, I would only be put off for a moment.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver