(Posted this on the wrong forum earlier) I'll apologize first, since this will probably be confusing. I just can't figure something out.
Ex filed for the D a year ago and at that time, I said fine, let's just get this over with.
Immediately ex started pursuing. It made the whole circle - compliments, hugs & kisses, dates, and living together as a family again.
But ex didn't stop the D. It was final in February. He couldn't say that he didn't love me, but just that too much had went wrong. (I suspect ow)
So even after we split, he stills wants to have nice talks on the phone, (at his convenience), promises me 'we could be together again', and seemed really comfortable being around me the one time he came to visit us.
After an argument last weekend, well, ex didn't really take it all back, just adamantly does not want me living any closer to him. (still thinking ow here!)
So, as in one of my other posts today, I am going dark to clear my head. (and to see if he starts pursuing again)
What i just can't make any sense of, is why did he start pursuing after i agreed to the div?
And why would he keep me hanging on after the div?
Sorry, just pondering things for a moment and now I need to quit thinking about ex for today! (easier said than done, but I know it's possible!)
