The park was fun, but not w/o confusion! When we got there, 3 other schools had decided to come, so we ended up going to a different park but the kids had more fun. And it turned cloudy, but at least no rain.

I am holding off on my reply since he still doesn't know that my computer is working yet. After I 'miss' his calls this weekend with my 'busy plans', I will just send him a quick note saying - hey sorry we didn't get your call, and yes got the money. and just leave it at that.

Part of this legal issue is related to ex as I took responsibility for a joint credit card in the div agreement. I didn't have to, but decided it was just easier on the kids not to be arguing over money any more. But the cc company will not take it off of his credit report until it is paid in full and the atty I talked to was for filing a chapter 7 and he made me feel like an idiot. Every question I asked made his fee for the bankruptcy go up another $100! So I didn't ask anymore!

It is just so frustrating, since the div the kids and I are struggling to survive and w/debts on there I was ready to just give it up and get out from under it all. I was hoping that it would also be a nice gesture from me to the ex to get it off his credit, but it looks like that could get posted to his history if I file now even though we r div. And if ex wouldn't have made such a big legal matter out of everything, I could have had it paid off by now.

I vow to have a fun weekend though. I am going to enjoy the next two days w/sons and then sit down and figure out what alternatives I have on these debts.

(I did already make a complaint about this attorney!)