My goal, I think, is to get our relationship on more stable ground, even if we are div, the emotions run high everytime we talk. Ex has been stringing me along with some promises that we will get back together, I confronted him on that last weekend (which I know was wrong on my part now, I pursued) and he backed off on the promise to be together.
I also only recieve calls from him, but that has been his choice. When I try to call, even w/family related stuff, he cuts me off.
So, maybe, my objective is two fold. Give ex the time to make the choice between us and his new life, and give me some time to clear my head to GAL.