Re: grocery shopping-- both my and my bf LOVE grocery shopping. We especially like foreign grocery stores, e.g., Indian, Latin American, etc. And HE'S the one who will look at EVERY item on the shelf, not me.
One thing I realized at the workshop is that we have no trivial R issues-- being on time, what tv program to watch, chores, shopping, cooking, pet care, laundry, yard work, music, noise level in the house, how cold/hot it should be in the house, money (we keep our money separate, but are very generous with each other)-- We are always 100% in harmony on all of these. We only have CORE issues: sex, do you love me, am I a worthwhile person, etc.
