I know this. What I am having difficulty doing is getting her to free up the time. I guess I need to be more forceful about it. Thinking about it, I guess we do get a little more time than I stated, it just comes in small chunks. I'd really like to have an hour or more a day of uninterrupted time with her. I've been getting a little more by doing things like going to the grocery store with her, leaving one of the oldest kids to look after the rest while we are gone and that has been helping both for connection, and it seems to speak one to her in one of her LLs.
