NOP,
Alone time? Whats that? Seriously, it is only about 2 hours a week or so. She fills up her evening time with stuff she couldn't do during the day because of the babies. I'd like it to be much more, but if I push it I am either 'hovering' or keeping her from getting her things done.
Last night I tried for the 10'oclock put down your projects thing. well, she did, and promptly turned on CSI, which she insisted she had to watch. After that was over, she had to check her emails, then when she finally came to bed at about 11:30 she fell asleep within 5 minutes. I called her on it this morning so she initiated an oh,oh GGB sounds bummed quickie.