I would keep bringing up the schedule, despite her resistance. She has no good reason for not wanting to do it. Why would a woman who feels little spontaneous desire for sex think that it should just "happen"?
Or, how about asking her to give it a trial run? Perhaps the NOPs could chime in as to how long the trial should be.
I thought about bringing our schedule up last night, but didn't. It is time to instate it. My pain has lessened enough that sex is now viable and I want to get it on before I start feeling bad again, lol. The pain is slowly creeping back so I know it's only a matter of time.
