I still think you should go for the gold and try to get sexual with her in a way that couldn't possibly be perceived as needy. Tap into your own selfish desire for sexuality and bring that to the table or even better just go right ahead and do her on the table. Watch "The Postman Always Rings Twice" and you'll see what I'm talking about.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
