The reason she doesn't need to see your hurt right now is because the other man is desperate and needy due to his situation.
Two desperate men NEEDING her, not WANTING her leaves her with only one choice, 'none of the above'.
If you were her, which would you choose.
a) The strong guy with the hots for her, who has the intelligence to recognize her needs, and the desire to fill them. The guy who has the drive to make positive changes in his life, and besides that, he wants her.
or
b) The guy stuck in the dark, dank single room apartment with half of his paycheck already spent on the family he abandoned, who is physically reaching out to her for comfort because he is a bit lost and no one understands him but her. The guy who constantly reminds her that he did all of this, just for her. The guy who keeps telling her that he will win against you.
I know this is hard stuff, but put your eyes on the goal, and take them off yourself.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
