csw. Good to see you are getting a raise and getting back on your horse. I don't have any advice for you except to say you have done more to save your M than 99% of the people I know, so keep posting your experiences and feelings. I read most of your posts an am amased.
I read on the net, on a marriage site, nothing prepares you for marriage like marriage itself. They also said the same things about kids. What you don't know now you will have to learn along the way. This all assumed you and the W were dedicated people with reasonable skills and finances.
An eBay question if you don't mind. I have several printer and household items to sell. Are there better times of the day, week, and length of auction you think are more effective at bringing higher bids. Having your auctions listing closing at 3AM on sunday morning don't seem good to me. I know pictures and descriptions are very important.
Also does it pay to auction items under a certain value considering it takes time to list, answer questions, pack, and UPS them. What might that value be?
Your reply might say start on day of the week, list for XX days, and if it takes more than XX minuets and brings less than $X dollars, donate the item.
