She also could have meant....she thought csw wasn't all that fond of kissing. That's how I took her statement, not as a personal criticism...but I'm really glad she noticed how it came across to csw too.
csw, she is coming around...and I expect it will be a halting turn-around....remember she's not going to trust the changes you've made are permanent....just try to keep reminding yourself of that. But you are on the upswing...hang in there and hold on!!!