Good gravy, you're just now wondering about her intentions?! Yeah she wants you. Take it for the compliment that it is but perhaps you could work some "I'm just here for the massage" language into the next session, that way she knows to lay off the R talk. And then get a new masseuse as soon as your arrangement with her is up. She sounds a bit unstable..showing up at places where you happen to be, etc.
I think in general R talk is said to be a bad idea around here, but you may have had a mini-breakthrough with your wife. She sounds almost human in these last interactions. I hope she continues to come around.
What was she hoping or expecting to find by rifling through your things? What was she snooping for? That I don't understand. Is her guilt eating her alive and making her think that everyone is cheating?
Good luck on the raise! In my current occupation, my GM is also my BB and he is too dang stingy with the money, if you ask me. Who ever heard of working for free for years on end, hmph. And when I ask for a "raise" I may or may not get that rise, ifyouknowwhatI'msayin.
Yeah she wants you. Take it for the compliment that it is but perhaps you could work some "I'm just here for the massage" language into the next session, that way she knows to lay off the R talk. And then get a new masseuse as soon as your arrangement with her is up. She sounds a bit unstable..showing up at places where you happen to be, etc.