I think that you will find your experience is somewhat outside of the norm.
Plotting and conniving are quite common, and in csw's case, of a known quantity.
csw, can of course, answer for himself.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.