CeMar...this phrase is exactly the excuse you were looking for not to put any effort into actually trying to fix your M isn't it?
Quote: She also has figured out that only WOMEN can fix their SSM's.
This is the conclusion YOU already formed for yourself and you were looking for someone to validate that YOU were right. So, you'll continue to come here and bitch and complain...but you won't DO anything will you? Now you have your magic phrase that you can hang onto to justify your lack of action.