I've come to the conclusion that you are a Narcissist....here is some information I pulled off of a website on Narcissism. From the way you come across on this BB, you fit the bill on many of the traits (I didn't pull all of them off, but most of the traits I have here.) You need to take a REALLY good look at yourself.
How many narcissists does it take to change a light bulb? Just one -- but he has to wait for the whole world to revolve around him. ______________________________________________________
Narcissists are generally contemptuous of others. This seems to spring, at base, from their general lack of empathy, and it comes out as (at best) a dismissive attitude towards other people's feelings, wishes, needs, concerns etc. It is also connected to their overall negative outlook on life.
Narcissists are (a) extremely sensitive to personal criticism and (b) extremely critical of other people.
Narcissists are not only selfish and ungiving -- they seem to have to make a point of not giving what they know someone else wants. Thus, for instance, in a "romantic" relationship, they will want you to do what they want because they want it and not because you want it -- and, in fact, if you actually want to do what they want, then that's too much like sharing and you wreck their fun and they don't want it anymore. They want to get what they want from you without giving you what you want from them. Period. If you should happen to want to give what they want to get, then they'll lose interest in you. ^
Narcissits criticize, gripe, and complain about almost everything and almost everyone almost all the time.
Narcissists are hostile in reaction, but they are generally passive and lacking in initiative. They don't start stuff -- they don't reach out. They will complain about the same things for years on end, but only rarely do anything to change what dissatisfies them so badly.
Narcissists are grandiose they're in love with themselves.
Narcissists have little sense of humor. This is because, lacking empathy, they don't get the context and affect of words or actions, and jokes, humor, comedy depend entirely on context and affect. They specialize in sarcasm about others and mistake it for wit.
Narcissists lack empathy, so they don't know what you want or like and, evidently, they don't care either; second, they think their opinions are better and more important than anyone else's, so they'll give you what they think you ought to want, regardless of what you may have said when asked what you wanted.
It's very hard to have a simple, uncomplicated good time with a narcissist. They are incapable of loving conduct towards anyone or anything, so they do not have the capacity for simple pleasure, beyond the satisfaction of bodily needs. There is only one way to please a narcissist (and it won't please you): that is to indulge their every whim, cater to their tiniest impulses, bend to their views on every little thing
The Narcissist believes that if someone really loves him, they would have see him as he wishes to be seen.
Narcissists are noted for their negative, pessimistic, cynical, or gloomy outlook on life. Sarcasm seems to be a narcissistic specialty, not to mention spite. Nothing real is ever perfect enough to satisfy them, so are they are constantly complaining and criticizing -- to the point of verbal abuse and insult.
Sorry for the HiJack on this thread...I now return it to it's original owner!
