Thanks...I'll look into that book.

One thing I do require at this point is that it be "balanced" and not another one of those ones that spends 299 pages discussing all the things the husband might be doing "wrong" and how he should just go on working and begging and being patient and settling for anything he gets and 1 page - if that - talking about what a WIFE can and should do for her HUSBAND. I've read umpteen of those types of books (and - honestly - put a lot of time and effort to putting that advice to practice, with insufficiently satisfactory results), and I'm not about to accept yet another.