That still gives you time to keep DB'ing, though. Make the most of it. Let her see changes in YOU.
Right now, I'm reading "Love must be Tough" by Dobson. That one explains a LOT. It's almost like he was reading my mind for parts of it. Deals a lot with infidelity, which is not part of my sitch, but the emotional abandonment is similar.
Letting her go, giving her the freedom to do so is part of this process. I keep trying to tell myself that if my own sitch goes all the way to D, and it's rocketing toward it as fast as yours, that I'll still not be "done."
