My WAW told me last night that "our" divorce will be final on 12 August. I told her that I won't contest it. That nearly killed my. I managed to keep it together, but I'm dying inside.
If I were to contest the divorce, I would succeed in proving to her that she was right in wanting out (I'm ignoring her desires). If I let it ride, I'm letting my beloved slip away. It seems like a lose/lose situation.
I have decided to let her slip away. Ouch.
Maybe when the divorce actually hits her, she'll see reality. Maybe she won't.
