I guess its the games ie; giving flowers, paying attention to each other, giving gifts, the pursueing that some of us like. I loved when H pursued me, it was wonderfull having all that attention. I didn't stop the giving behavior until a couple years ago, he, however pretty much stopped it when we got married. When we got married, I all of a sudden became the back burner.
Seems once this happens and neither partner speaks up, then it exculates and then takes alot to fix it
