Lose your counselor. They are not helping. Consider setting up a call with Michele (the lady in the top right picture).
Separation is crap. It rarely works, and only then, in the more extreme cases. Otherwise, it is just prep for divorce.
Listen to GEL. Don't leave your house. There are many good reasons not too, some of them legal.
You have to decide if you want to fight for your marriage or not. If you want to fight for it, there are folks here that will help.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
