MrsNOP, I don't understand her lack of wanting to forgive either. As you say this is a choice and as someone else pointed out, forgetting it may take time.
Our broken SL is the result of problems with our M. I have always been HD and W is LD (except for when we first met). I always initiated, and although I would have loved increased frequency, I had no complaints at all when we did ML. So if our R were on track, I would want to work on frequency. But the current situation has resulted from difficulties in our R.
We are Catholic, but are kind of like Catholic-lite if you know what I mean.
