Ok...sounds to me that she's probably learned this behavior. No, women aren't like men....but we DO have sexual urges. Also, when she says it takes her a long time to forgive...that's a choice she makes. You can choose to forgive someone for something you feel they've done to you...now forgetting it, that can take some time...this is true. She needs to learn the difference...that, I feel IS something you can bring up in you C session....and if you feel it appropriate you can take her oooomph of the "all you want is sex" issue by saying .... you don't even want to think about sex right now with her....because YOU want to work on your R first
Now, I know you're resentful and angry...believe me what you are going through, these feelings....they are perfectly natural and to be expected. What YOU have to work at is trying to work through those feelings too....DON'T let that come out at her, that's fuel for her fire right now.
Feel free to bounce anything off me you wish...I promise to give you honest feedback ;-)
