GEL, Yes, probably have not spent as much time together, but part of that has been her. She says that she doesn't always feel like spending time with me (discouraging to me). She has also said that she doesn't want to have to think of the R all the time.
Our C has said to both of us that the M will not continue in the current state. I have voiced that as well. I am trying to be patient, but I think it is also important to be realistic. Our C says that in the next 2-3 mo, it will become apparent if the M will work ( I had expressed my anxiety since my W said that she didn't know if it would take her a year, 2 years, or perhaps never be able to feel the way I want her to toward me. You have to admit that someone telling you they don't know if they will ever be able to be intimate with you again is extremely discouraging).
I am hopeful that the C is right and the next 2-3 mo are revealing. Honestly, if there is no progress by the end of the summer, I am going to leave-difficult as it may be.
