GEL, I hear what you are saying. There are little things she does that say she cares. She said she cares about me. She hasn't said she still loves me. But it is so little to go on. I keep wondering- that maybe I would find the happiness I long for with someone else.
We have always had busy lives. Both professionals, same field. We work long hours. We have been blessed with someone who helps us a great deal. We try to share in the daily duties of the family. I always thought everything was ok until last August when she didn't want to be intimate anymore. Guess I was wrong. Funny thing is- we worked and worked to get where we are professionally and built a great house. When I thought it was time to enjoy-pow! Things are in a tailspin... It's hard to believe that I've been wrong for the past 10 or so years.