Setting something up is a good idea, but I do not know if I would make it a surprise. I think that may set you up for dissappointment. If she gets surprised, she may just decide that she has made other plans, then you would be hurt and get defensive and then let's start the whole ball rolling. I would give her notice that you have set up a date for your anniversarry. If she says she is not interested, remember Damone's 5 part plan from one of my favorite movies- "Whatever happens, your toes are still tappin"
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
