Wild, W says it culminated over the past 3 yrs. Yes I have been mean at times. I have apologized profusely, gone over what I have done so that I don't do it again. Counselor has helped greatly with this. She says her hurt comes from the way I treated her and that she is the type of person who takes a very long time to forgive people. For perspective, I am a very neat person. She is sloppy. Most of this meanness has revolved around this. To me, she has made a mountain out of a mole hill. To an extent, I think the counselor thinks so as well. We are both stubborn, but I have tried everything to make it work. I sense that she has checked out ( a WAW) and doesn't care if it doesn't work, which is a change from her previous self...
