Yes, that is pretty much what I'm telling you. But believe me, I know how hard it can be to do what I'm advising you to do...so I would hardly call you a "wuss"...it takes courage to do this. BUT, remember the last time you talked with her, the world didn't end....she didn't exactly blow-up at you....and she's not going to "get it" unless YOU are open and honest with her on how this situation affects you and makes you feel. Right now, even though you've previously spoken with her, she's likely to think...you've gotten it out of your system....which, as you and I both know you may have done....but it didn't resolve a darned thing!
So prepare yourself for many, many, many talks with your W. Believe me, by the time you two work your way through this...talking to each other about difficult issues is going to be MUCH easier.
I'm glad to hear you aren't going to wait a week either :-) I find it's better to say what's on your mind and get it out, rather than let it fester inside...which inevitably comes out anyway.
